The most important thing a leader can do for their group is to be a real role model by modeling the kind of behavior they’ll expect from the group. A leader should be respectful, be honest, and be a good listener. An effective leader takes on different role than that of the traditional teacher/leader/parent; he (or she) is a coach, a cheerleader, and a facilitator for the group as he encourages kids to share, lead, and think for themselves.
Create an Environment of Trust
Most young people will share their thoughts and ideas if there’s an atmosphere of trust, so leaders need to start by building one. Begin by discouraging negative behavior. It's a good idea to let the group create its own code of conduct and have everyone agree to adhere to the rules of behavior, leader included.
Creating an atmosphere of trust is easy when the leader begins each meeting with ice breakers and trust-building activities.
Welcome All Learning Styles
Young people express themselves in a variety of different ways: through art or music, with words or actions, using dramatics or simply quiet expressions. Faith sharing can take place through diverse channels, so leaders should be prepared to offer several different opportunities for the youths to act and interact with the group. Art supplies, background music, and various other props help to amuse, entertain and inspire everyone. The goal is to be creative and have fun with the group as they share faith together.
Encourage Journaling
Some youths just can’t bring themselves to share in a group. For the benefit of these kids (and even for the talkative members of the group), leaders can encourage each participant to write in an ordinary notebook or a special journal that is kept private between the leader and the writer. Sharing journal entries with the group is optional.
Reflect on Faith
Group leaders should provide time for reflection before asking the group to share their thoughts on the faith lesson for the day. Introverts need time to get their thoughts together before they can address a group, so allow ample reflection time before initiating a discussion.
Let them "Pass"
In order to maintain an environment of trust, never force a young person to share; it’s okay to gently encourage them to talk, some only need an invitation, but allow those who just aren’t comfortable to “pass.”
Today’s youth have a deep need to develop and explore their faith; and caring, involved adults are the key to a successful faith sharing experience.
Francine Morrissette - Francine Morrissette is a freelance writer from southern Maine who has published articles on a wide range of topics including health, ...
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